First off I want to say awesome blog! I had a quick question in which I'd like to ask if you do not mind. I was curious to find out how you center yourself and clear your thoughts before writing.
I've had trouble clearing my thoughts in getting my ideas out. I do enjoy writing however it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are generally wasted simply just trying to figure out how to begin. Any recommendations or tips? Many thanks! I think Vienna and Jake are a lovely couple with huge potential. I just see baby games, and if both people put in just a little effort, it could be sorted and they can have a wonderful future together. Jake to "show" actions of love as well as truly loving Vienna, and Vienna to inwardly respect as well as outwardly "show" respect.
That was the worst recap I have ever read. Vienna kept interrupting because Jake kept lying throughout the entire interview and she called him on one lie. About the cheating accusation, after she explained what really happened, especially about the gay guy, he didn't know what to say, he was stumped. And if anyone believes that Vienna was the first girl he had to raise his voice to, well I have some land in the Louisiana swamp that I would like to sell you.
First of all, we all saw him yell at Chelsie on DWTS, and ordered her to do what he wanted, and she was suppose to be teaching him!! What a control freak. He's a liar, he's abusive, and he's controlling, not to mention narcissistic. Oh, by the way, in the original taping of the interview, he was very volatile and made a fist as he screamed to her to shut up about 3 times in a row, as told by eyewitnesses who were present during the original taping.
Why do you think that story was going around in the first place? ABC tried to say it wasn't true, but it was. I wonder how many women he may have hit in the past, he is surely capable of it from what I've seen. He has an abusive personality. I've seen it many times before in my profession. So funny! LOL if this was a taste of what living with her was like is it any wonder why he was'nt feeling all warm and loving towards her. He even said as much. And for everyone that says there is something wrong with him, he seemed so fake How well wold you take it?
I think he descided to "grin and bear it" untill he had all he could stand and he could'nt stand no more. And at that he said please I wonder what Mel Gibson would have done I absolutely can't understand the thinking of people who actually find a spoiled nasty childlike Vienna sympathetic.
If he was in a rage I don't blame him, she never shut up! Her daddy spoiled her for the real world and she is no bargain! He was a fool and made a poor choice, when all the girls don't like one girl, he should have been smart enough to run in the opposite direction.
Vienna reminds me of the woman who drowned her little boys and then addressed the world begging for the return of the boys with fake sobs. Vienna's face never moved, her lips stayed pouty and perfect along with the rest of her unmoving features. That big boo hoo is exactly the way a two year old acts when not getting it's way.
As to Jake being gay? Nice touch, if he isn't playing kissy with The V he "must be gay. She disgusts me along with all the people who find her victimized. During the show, the other women tried to warn Jake about what Vienna was like and he wouldn't listen.
Even her father said she should be treated like a Princess. Welcome to the real world Vienna, if all you wanted was to be taken care of — start looking for an year old Sugar Daddy. They both need to take responsibilty for there own parts. Stop the judgments. Vienna is very immature and a drama queen. She is incapable of listening it seems and behind all there hurts she can only feel her own pain.
Vienna needs therapy to work all this out in her head and like i said they both need to look at themselves. Nobody can make you do anything without your consent. Judgements are the birth of a never-ending argument. Come on looking for love on TV spotlight is not real. Its easy to be in love when you wine and dine and being on an island etc. Then you get back to reality and obviously reality was to much real world.
What do I think..? Well, I think Jake picked Vienna at the end because he wanted some fame, he knew what everybody said about her. I think he is an arrogant loser, otherwise, how can you explain that a good looking man is still single..?
I think he is an arrogant idiot looking for fame I think the girls in the house were right. Vienna is a controlling, manipulative B and I don't blame Jake if he wasn't romantically interested in her after putting up with her s—t. I find it amazing how mad some women get when a man doesn't act like he has to do everything she wants, when she wants it, the way she wants it, and then tells him how he's doing it wrong as he does it.
And in front of everyone. No wonder men are proposing less and less these days. You seem to have it backwards. Perfect, 2 Peas in a Pod!!! Damned temper tantrum but abusive non the less.
As far as the lack of intimacy goes I think he's either has a performance problem, is gay or he just used her for publicity by choosing her on The Bachelor because she was the most controversial girl on the show and only performed long enough to keep her with him a little longer until he got his "CAREER" going.
He was going to dump her anyways. Jake is a kook! I'd warn my daughter against abusive guys like him. Glad Vienna is free of that garbage.
Jakes an ass, I feel sorry for Vienna. I married a guy like this — the party's over once he knows he's won your heart. So I know what she's talking about and I also know the overwhelming frustration, heartbreak, and disbelief that she feels. In the end she put her big girl panties on and apologized And through it all, Jake was smug and unemotional.
I mean he just pledged undying love for this woman and didn't even make an attempt to comfort her as she was breaking down. What a! I was never a Vienna fan, but I thought Jake was a nice guy.
I did a total flip-flop after last night. What a conceited, arrogant jerk he is. It's not like she is any different than she was all along. The way he spoke to her, whether she was interrupting or not, was ridiculous. And I lost all respect for Chris Harrison.
It's time for a new, unbiased host. He looks like a dork from the fifties anyway. I hope Jake disappears into the sunset and we never hear from or of him again.
Jillian had him pegged right all along. Where do I start? During Jake's season, he was warned by every other woman, what type of person Vienna was spoiled,selfish,rude,cut-throat. He chose to ignore the warnings and gave her the final rose. The joke was on him, wasn't it? However, I have since changed my mind about Jake, and I say even Vienna is too good for him.
Jake, you could not hide your true self last night. Anyone can see that you are a self-centered, heartless, egotistical, control freak with severe anger issues.
Get therapy sunshine, or you will live out the rest of your days as a "Bachelor". I think Chris Harrison is the real villain. He is so smarmy and condescending. I hate how he makes himself sound like he's above it all when he's the one profiting the most from this trash.
It was fake. Jake seemed to be the one favored by the interviewer. Vienna only there as drama. Jake on a lot of shows lately, no longer a pilot. He hasn't slept with Vienna. Probably gay. Always liked Jake Vienna not at all — ,my oh my how my opinions have changed. Last night told the real story in body language. So she questioned that he knew where a building was they were going to. She reached for the GPS unit to verify the information, he gets mad and throws it?
Come on! This man is in his mids Had Vienna kept her mouth closed a bit more and just let him talk I would imagine the psychiatrists would be calling him to schedule his first appointment. He is a narcissistic wackjob. Jake if you are reading this, go to therapy so one day if you do get married and have children, they don't have to deal with your narcissist self. Vienna is a young immature woman who is spoiled, she will do fine later in life and a man will accept her spoiledness and her character flaws.
She's a cute girl and she can actually feel something unlike her ex fiance. Vienna should not have gone to the rag mags to air the problems. Gee how much money did she make for those interviews? I found it interesting that for all the professing Vienna did about hating LA, didn't she find a job there Vienna can go on the audition rounds all she wants It is time to come clean for this show.
Analysis of Jake from the show where he was one of the competing bachelors for the Bachlorette, recall that he made a phone call to the Bachlorette after being dumped and then insisted on meeting with her to reveal secrets he knew about another bachelor. Jake's demeanor is very effeminate and he has inappropriate emotional responses to many situations. Recall how terrified he was of bungy jumping on his date with Vienna.
On both shows he was a whiner and portrayed himself as this "sweet" fellow. Recall the home visit with his mother who was outspoken with her opinion. On Dancing With the Stars" he was sarcastic and volatile towards his training dancing partner during practices. When he was dumped from Dancing WTS he shed a well of tears after his rejection. In conclusion Jake has displayed some serious symptoms of a personality disorder and including volatile behavior.
He needs help psychologically. If the network does keep him as a contestant for the Bachelor Pad series look out for more scandals.
Give it months. Typical, what is it. You really are an American. You have small man disease. This is the only way you can get around your wife controling you. LOL Good try. Would say grow up, well you know small man.
With a small mind. Well now I know why Jake didnt want Ali to come back. She was such a very nice lady he didnt want to hurt her. So he picked a woman who has already cheated and proved to be a liar. What a way to get out of marrage and get fame. This was clearly a toxic relationship and thankfully it ended before anyone was emotionally damaged.
I was engaged to a man like Jake and trust me, behind closed doors he was 10 times worse than what we saw on tv. We went through 4 counselors and he would use the "undermine" words and say, "see she keeps defending herself". Jake is truly narcissitic and Vienna needs some serious counseling before she is ready for a true relationship. It was painful to watch but they need to be happy it is over. I watched "The Bachelor" and knew from the time he picked her that it wouldn't last.
He picked the least classy girl in the bunch, and surprise to her And he got it, which is what the problem was. I think it's time she heads back to the swamp and slithers into oblivion.
End of story. They deserve each other. He wanted his 15 minutes of fame and got it but was not satisfied and then decided on national TV to bully a woman. What a MAN!?!?!? He's not a patch on a man's ASS!
I enjoy the Bachelor and Bachelorette purely for the light entertainment of it. Vienna was entertainment, but that was it. The two together — you knew the physical attraction would wear down, "daddy's" little girl would show her true "do it my way or else I will boo hoo" side and what man would fine a whiney grown woman exciting enough to live with the rest of his life.
If she kept undermining him, and I can see that happening, that would be a big turnoff. When you are turned off, things get nasty. One is rejected, one no longer cares, obviously, little problems become bigger issues. Neither should ever get married, much less reproduce! But Vienna asked for this drama, and now she plays the games she plays with men, including daddy!
Boo Hoo, whoa is poor me. Sorry Vienna, you played the game and you lost! I don't understand why people are criticizing the country, or the show, or cnn for a new low.
What a bunch of cry babies these two are. I didn't even watch the show Bachelor, and only watched last night for kicks!!! They both need to grow up. The "display" last night, was just ridiculous.
This argument was merely a way to gain publicity for this awful show! How stupid to have shows on television that allows a person to date 20 or so iindividuals for a short amount of time to find the love of their life!
I believe Vienna wholeheartedly. I really did want the relationship to work between jake and Vienna but after watching last night episode I am so glad that Vienna had enough sense to leave Jake.
Jake is very controlling and crazy. He wants a doormat for a wife or girlfriend. I am so disappointed in Jake and Chris Harrison for being so mean to Vienna. Vienna is tellin the truth about Jake. He is very phony and fake. He puts on for the camera and other people but when he is behind close doors only Vienna saw how controlling and pathethic he really can be.
I lived with a man like Jake for over fifteen years and he almost had my self esteem on the ground. Men like Jake make other people think he is a prince charming but behind all of that fakiness is the real Jake and that came out last night. Jake is mentially abusive and he is probably physically abusive also or he is getting to that point.
I know most of you have taken this lightly and accused Vienna of talking too much but another grown person should never ever yell or scream at his or her wife, fiance' or signicant other in a rude or disrepectful tone. Jake is a very dangerous person and he is well worth watching. I am really saddened by all of this. Jake has some serious mental health issues. Bet if this was out before Dancing With The Stars, he wouldn't have been dancing!
I don't doubt we'll see him behind bars charged with assult!! This was SO ugly a meeting of these two people that they should have spared us all and not aired it! There is no taking sides in this one. I'm sure they are both liars about one thing or another. TV has changed them both and not for the better. I hope if they're on TV that they fail and that they go off and crawl under the closet rock.
They are both immature and obnoxious. Who needs to hear anymore from either one of them! I know a lot of people are saying "new low" or whatever for abc, cnn, etc. BUT that was seriously entertaining. I've been getting so bored with this season's bachelorette, but this fight was so funny from beginning to end.
I guess I am one of the few that thought last night made Jake look better, that was the true Vienna. Just that last part, where she wouldn't let him finish I wouldn't wish that on any guy! And that part about him feeling undermined And facts, who knows what the facts are They're both a couple of flakes Look on the brightside folks! At least they are not going to get married and have kids. Imagine that. That would be alot more messed up. Prime example of why older men should not date younger girls.
Jake should not have expected Vienna to act any differently than she did about the whole relationship and breakup. SHE IS She is suppose to be immature! Jake, leave the young girls alone and let them hang out with friends and guys their own age so they can mature in a timely manner.
If you want a mature relationship without all the drama, find a woman your own age. Although there still may be some drama attached, if won't be quite as disturbing!!! I truly hope people realize that just because this show is unscripted doesn't mean it's not show business.
This isn't real. It never was. The people on these shows aren't looking for "love. Have you noticed that the people on here get more and more outrageous. Have you noticed that none of them are well-matched. Alleged 'relationships" are done for show.
A truly loving relationship doesn't have entertainment value. I am afraid, however, that too many people mistake reality shows for reality. I didn't watch the show last season and know next to nothing about these two people, but from what I saw last night only stopped flipping my channels out of curiosity it's Vienna who seems a bit psychotic here.
There seems to be a complete lack of communication skills between those two. Jake repeatedly asked her to let him talk, and she repeatedly ignored his request. Complete lack of respect on her part. And then to go crying, "He's so mean to me! That woman will never find a husband if she thinks she's going to get a kiss and undying attention every minute of every day.
Here's some advise for the both of them: Marry ugly people. If Jake marries only a semi-attractive woman, she won't feel the need to be doted on daily and very likely won't be the selfish, self-centered person that Vienna has grown in to. If Vienna marries a semi-attractive or ugly man, she'll be put on a pedestal and get everything she wants!
Just for a goof, I compared the number of replies on here vs. Three times as many as Obama commenting on his meeting with Netanyahu. Just a few shy of this one on an article regarding the Gulf Oil Disaster. Three times as many as on the article of Obama commenting on his meeting with Netanyahu. Just a few shy of an article regarding the Gulf Oil Disaster. OMG Jake is such a jerk! All non european whites should love this show! Best after the rose show ever! Ithink she should take her horse face back home she cried last night how she wanted to go back home and jake didn't well now there's nothing holding you back go home nobody wants to look at that horse face anymore.
A hooter girl wants to be on TV.. He should take back Ali.. All staged by ABC. Afterwards, as Jake confided to the camera that he thought it "went well", Vienna mouthed off about how much of a joke Jake is and how much she hates him.
While Vienna refuses to be in the same room as Jake, Holly and Michael hang out and sit next to each other. So while others strategize and attempt to go home with the money, and others attempt to form relationships, Jake and Vienna continue to battle it out between themselves. Sweeter than sugar single mom Ella Nolan is most deserving of the loot but nothing would be more satisfying than watching it all comes down to Jake and Vienna.
Assuming, of course, that they both survive to that point. Note to readers: if you purchase something through one of our affiliate links we may earn a commission.
The starchy year-old commercial flight instructor, who has flown through the 25 women vying for his affection faster than any leading man on the seemingly never-ending ABC dating franchise, says he doesn't need to justify his romantic choices to the show's fans, who have been especially vocal that he kept fire-starter Vienna Girardi around.
Girardi, a year-old marketing representative from Geneva, Fla. The other two competing are year-old swimsuit model Gia Allemand from New York and year-old college admissions representative Tenley Molzahn from Newberg, Ore. That's what I was taught, that it can only happen with one girl at a time, but that's not the truth. I was crazy about Ali, Vienna, Tenley and Gia. Viewers were distraught Pavelka did not try harder to persuade Ali Fedotowsky, one of the four contenders remaining on last Monday's installment, to stay after the Facebook advertising account manager revealed she would lose her job if she didn't go back to work.
Pavelka did not think Fedotowsky would actually leave, and doing so "broke my heart that night. I really do. Asking her questions isn't a mean thing; it's giving her a chance to explain. Instead of have Jake throw out accusations and put her on the defensive, I thought it was putting her on the offensive. Obviously, you're not going to make everybody happy, but I left there at least knowing that, in my mind, it was fair, open, and honest.
It wasn't a proud moment for anybody — I don't think any of them came out looking great — but it was fair and I thought you saw Jake for who he is and you saw Vienna for who she is. ABC: Vienna calls Jake a "fame whore" during taped interview. Harrison : Jake's like, "I'm not a fame whore," she's like, "I'm not in it for the public," I'm like, "All right then, put your money where your mouth is.
Are you done after this? I think both of them, her to a lesser degree, have enjoyed the fame. They both got caught up in it a little bit and I think they both changed a little bit.
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